Tuesday, September 16, 2025

17/9/2025

 Bible reading. Isaiah 36 - 43


Reflection:

I am so sleepy today, my brain is barely working. Too tired, too lack of sleep. Should have probably ask wife to let me sleep in car, or probably shouldn't have joined to come hospital. But for some reason, I felt like coming today was a very necessary step. Nevertheless, I am here today. Wife says she wants kids, but I am not sure if we can have 1, I am scared there is now something wrong with me. Career wise, I am worried if I will ever amount to something, but I know this is not the right thinking. I need to change out of this. Also, I can see God's providence in my work, that things are progressing well on their own.


Isaiah 36 - 37

Who is the king of Assyria in my life now, what is coming at me, that is pretending to be on level with God, that is shouting like that uncircumcised giant? This passage reminds me that powerful beings, people in authority will always come and flex their positions, their strength, wealth and talents. They will come demanding lordship and reverence, asking for people to trust in them, as they have attained a position of power. In my current stage of life, what represents this king of Assyria? My work, my income, my clients, my shareholders, big players of the industry, other christians who thinks they know God's calling over me, friends, my in-laws. There's so many people that could be an Assyrian king, but what God you call me to do is not to be afraid of them, to stare them in the face and hold my ground saying "you move, not me" I don't have this courage in full yet, But I know God is kind to help prepare me for the day that I will have that courage.

Isaiah 43

This is an extremely powerful chapter where God himself declares that he loves me, and all the things he does, has done and will do because of this great love.

Monday, September 15, 2025

16/9/2025

 Bible reading: Isaiah 30 - 35


Reflections:

Today I had among one of the weirdest nightmares, I dreamed of being back in Kluang, but among company that I do not know of. The only person whom I knew was my wife, but the said company seems to have connections with my wife. They knew the 2 of us, and we seem to also know all of them, but the people present were of all different types. 

Then suddenly my ex (Jenny) appeared, and she kept causing trouble (that type I do not remember anymore, but I also remember her not wanting to leave, but I do not remember what she said and quarreled with me about. I also remember everyone there felt very awkward with her around. After she caused a scene, I forgot what I did to please her, but after doing it, she seems to have felt she has won, and then she left. If I remember correctly, there was also another person around with her, who left with her. During the time she was here, a lot of turmoil and drama between me and my wife start to surface. I cannot recall if at that point of time, we are married already or not. After she left, a friend (that seems to identify as her teacher/lecturer/ someone in authority over her in the past) came up and say that she was a very difficult character, a number of people also came up and spoke on my behalf helping me calm down my wife/gf. 

After they spoke on my behalf, then things calmed down between me and my gf ( I think I now understand that Valerie in that dream is only my gf?) Then we went to the window side, and there was another couple there (seems to know Valerie) and we asked them if a car (ex) has drove of, to which they said yes. And then I explained the situation, to which the girl lying down on the bed (black girl) also acknowledge understanding the situation, having went through a similar toxic situation before.

I think the reason why I am having this dream is a showing of my subconscious mind, that I am still worried this past is affecting my current relationship. Then which when I woke up, I quickly prayed a prayer of forgiveness over myself, asking God to forgive me for I haven't let go of my past, to forgive me of my stubbornness to go for that past, and to help me forgive myself and let go. Right then, wife woke up and comfort me. I still feel affected, but now I can remind myself it is all in the past.

15/9/2025

 Quiet time journaling.

Bible reading: Isaiah 22 - 29

Today is one of the hardest days to get round to not working because it's a very good holiday to be content creating and posting. There's back to back holidays around it, so naturally people will be on their phones scrolling away. But same time, today is also the day where I have declared as my sabbath, and keeping it is truly a mental challenge. But I shall persevere to keep today a rest day, I shall not touch work, I shall only do rest related things like watching movie, and playing games. I will even go for a jog. I will also complete more bible reading today, keep this day as holy as possible. 

Oh frustrating my life is that I am still struggling with pornography and masturbation. worse is I am already married, so by right this issue should already be sorted. 

I am amazed by God's great works. I didn't post anything today, but the vitality of my pages are doing well. I gain 100 followers in 1 day today. More than I gained the entire week. God bless me for following sabbath. 

Sunday, September 14, 2025

14/9/2025

Isaiah 10 - 21

Isaiah 10

The other part that I think why God must deal punishment, is because 1.) it showcases his strength, which brings glory to him, and same time, it also does justice. Thus part of his character to also punish wrong doings.

Isaiah 12

This one reminds me of a characteristic I have. In my anger, I still show love and compassion to people whom I love, to people whom I care about (which also, isn't many now that I think about it) When I am angry with my wife, my family members, people who are under me, I still think of their wellbeing first, which now as I look at it, it's a characteristic that came from God, this is an area of my life that he has gave as a strength, that I use to display to everyone as long suffering enduring power of God. It is also an area that I can use to be a testimony to God, but will be an area that only after long relationship with people, will show fruits and results.

Isaiah 13 - 21

This one really opens up my mind, like every single enemy of Israel, each nation of it's days, from Babylon to Egypt, even nations that no longer exists (the only one not mentioned here is Rome and Greece, but they too are being ripped apart) if anything history teaches, its that whoever comes against me, God will slaughter, and in their peak might, God will tear it down, and lay it low. All glory must go back to him. All everything must still come back to glorifying God. Here is what I will try my best to do. Everything in my business operations, people whom I recruit and sign up in my team, all I will do it to further God's kingdom. Each one of them, I want to introduce to God's kingdom. teach me oh God, how to do sales, real estate, business and grow wealth in your own way, and give me results like King David to be able to showcase these ways are true. Amen.

Quiet time ( compilation)

 Reading: Esther 1-2


Reading this 2 chapters reminds me of how sad and wicked the world that is outside of God really is. Due to the sin of the Israelites, they were subjected to the conquest of Persia when they came and conquer Babylon. Women in this book clearly have no standing in society and are treated merely as sex toys. 

As much as I love sex and fantasize over having my own harem, I want it to happen willingly. And the sad thing to see is none of this women mentioned even had the option of having their will asked or given intention to. Even most powerful royalty members like the queen, is regarded as a sex toy which can be paraded any time the King wishes. 


The way how the King qualifies who is to be is queen is by selecting who is deemed the prettiest, and pleases him the most. As contrasted against the way how Abrahams servant helped Issac choose a wife- he went to the well and watched for one to come, found that there is so many pretty and beautiful suitable mate for Issac. But because God says only 1 wife- 1 husband, it’s such a daunting choice. And thus his decision to commit the whole process to God instead of using his own wisdom. Thus creating the rule and criteria that helped him short list the right one. 


Then also reminded me that The circumstances we are in might be unchristian, and unGodly. But the way God calls us to be true to him can vary so much. In this broken world, God put us among broken lifestyle to show his gracefulness? Rather curious about how women of the old: Esther/ all those concubines, if they do go to heaven, who is their destined husband? Do they get to be paired up with real love? Or it’s remain virgin for eternity in heaven? What if they wanted to be with husband? All so complicated. And in my circumstances… probably what my wife wants is different from me? 


The opening of the book reminds me of his superficial humans really are. How selfish the world is compared to the idealism that God & the Christian world portrays. In fact, because God’s word is taught through flawed humans, it’s hard to hear God through men, without being subjected to their unhealthy perceptions. Thus needing my own quiet time to listen and be in-tuned with what God is saying. 


I also realised a struggle.. I don’t want to be like all these men in the Bible who enslave and objectify their women. I wanna uphold and treat Valerie with absolute dignity, but it too comes with the worry of being climbed all over. Something that has to be fought with. 



3/9/2025

Today after bringing a friend to church, I am faced with the question again. Whether I am ashamed of what I really believe in, and it is showing in what I am holding back when I wanna talk about things I do in church, or why I believe in God

6/9/2025
Bible reading Psalm 115 - psalm 130


After reading 117, because the chapter is so short, I feel like the thing I am learning here is not the duration or quality of quiet time that matters, but also the consistency. That if I don’t have a super big good quality time, doesn’t matter. Consistency is also important. The short (less than 30 words) Psalm was also recorded because it wants to remind us all that even if it’s a little bit of growth, God is still please.

After reading 119, I am reminded of the days when I was 20-21. When I was so on fire for God, so unwavering from what I read in the Bible. I won’t turn my head from left to right. Only looking forward. I miss those days. Now I feel I am far from that, but never matter! God is restoring me back to those days. Breathe life back into these dry bones.

As I read the Psalms, I feel like my soul is being edified, and full of positivity. I am not afraid, not worried, and reminded that my God is the redeemer.


I have been thinking about my spiritual calling, and what is it that I am best at doing. I think my main specialty is as a missionary. I am very good at bringing the lost to church, exposing them to Christian values, helping them settle and find comfort in church. I am by nature, a very patient and persevering person. I don’t give up easily.

Today was a very exhausting day. Not because the day was heavy, but also because it is a rest day from the long days of exhaustion. So I start reeling from all the exhausting work from the day. I been trying my best to ensure keeping of sabbath and God providing. This God provide thing is still a struggle that I am.

This week, I also restart the writing of this Quiet time journal because I want to record down my growth, find a place to pour out my brain, and record down my struggles, and also use it as therapy to think out my brain, especially clear up all the overthinking bits of my head.

Another thing I wanna overcome, and don’t let affect me anymore is the remembering of my wife’s past, and wanting to 1 up it. It grows stronger as our sex life decreased so much. I am now wondering if she loves any of her exes more, or me, because it feels like her sex life with them is better than whatever we are experiencing. I definitely expected a way more vibrant sex life. I think I also have a lot more to overcome in terms of what is in my head and probably do a body check up to determine why our sex life has dropped so much. It is also this area that I feel ashamed of myself. Another area of worry that has returned is worry of finances. This month is the month of heavy expenses again: Repairing car, Car insurance, replacing keyboard, repairing house, body check-up… lots of things needs replacing, and I don’t have the finances for it. I am feeling very stress. The brain and heart wants to blame my wife, especially the trip to Phuket for it, but I know it should not be, and that I should focus on God’s ability to provide for the 2 of us. We will get through this, and look back one day at God’s graciousness to sustaining us. But I am also very grateful that Valerie is so understanding. Despite the situation we are in, she doesn’t sound me, even give me space to rest and recuperate. If it was Jenny….. there would be a lot of arguments and quarrels. I realised that relationship was so bad to the point I am now re-learning a lot about how God provides.

Another lesson I am learning is how to manage the people under me. There’s 2. Casey and Adlene. God please guide and show me what are my roles in their development and getting to know you. Both are very headstrong individuals, but both also need and hunger for you.


7/9/2025
Bible reading: Psalms 131 - 150


these series of Psalms changed from its usual tone of “God save me” to “oh how Great is our God” reminding me what it is like to praise God, and to reverent in his greatness and power. I want to remember that I serve such a great God.


8/9/2025
Bible reading: Proverbs 1 - 8
I haven’t read this book in a long time, so reading it makes me feel reminiscent of a lot of things I read and seen when I was a teenager in university. The first few chapters reminds on seeking of wisdom. I used to hate this book because it is used by people like Jit Pang to point reproach. And now, after reading it, I feel like I am looking at them with reproach. That I have become haunty and arrogant. I feel like each time I read this book, I become less humble. I am sorry oh God, for failing to be humble after reading this book. A lot of times I will keep quiet now and just observe is because I am reminded of the days when I was outspoken and not humble. Spending a lot of time looking down on people. And then the struggle with results and all is probably God humbling me down to listen to wisdom. As I read chapter 1, it says that wisdom is everywhere and anywhere, always calling out. I hope I am not one of those who is blind to wisdom.

I used to think the fear of the lord is only reading the Bible. But I have also been subsconsciously relying on listening to the Holy Spirit and waiting on him for answers. Now as I read the Bible again, I understand that it is a combination of both. That devotion to studying and listening to the Holy Spirit, this combination is what gives wisdom.

Proverbs 8:13
The fear of the Lord is hatred of evil.
Pride and arrogance and the way of evil
    and perverted speech I hate.


My head is full of concern about my career. I am concerned if Adlene is the right partner. She is always in down time. Even admittedly saying that she is putting in less effort with SD as compared to Blaze. I at times wonder why am I subjecting myself to so much stress and tiredness managing 2 companies. It feels like I am doing all these to make ends meet, but at the same time, nothing is meeting. I feel like giving up and close both companies, both also feels problematic. Growing real estate also have its issues.. so much has to be manually done, and Casey’s learning is so challenging. His mind is full of overthinking, and he is also full of procrastination. How did you managed to lead your disciples of 12? Till today, I have no clue how to lead and how to groom these people. I feel like as they follow me, I am bringing them to no where, with no direction and no heading.

Oh God please help me. Guide me to the right direction, guide me to where there is green pastures and easy roads. Guide me so that I can bring success to these 2 who follow me. Help me keep these 2 subbordinates by my side. Things will be very difficult if they exit my team. Please help me bring revenue to them as well. Help me grow this business to a sustainable size. Grow this business for me into something big enough to sustain the 3 of us, while also achieve scaleability. I feel lost and directionless, and the learning curve is too steep. Help me get through this. Bring me through this, deliver me oh God, please don’t let me handle this alone. I look at the mirror and already see so much white hair on my head. Is that a sign of how much I am not reliant on you? I commit everything to you, all the career bits, all the work bits. I commit everything to you, all my worries, my relationships, my career fears, I surrender. I fully rely on you. Last year I ended high, but this year is full of struggles, and small wins. I want to remember all the small wins you give me and bring your name, bring your glory wherever I go. I am worried about the new role of marketing for aesthetic clinic that I have taken up. I am scared I cannot deliver. Please save me. Help me deliver. I am worried I cannot hit my sales target for this year. Help me. My mind is full of stress, my nights are full of worries, I cannot sleep without thinking of work, I cannot do anything without thinking of work. I commit everything work related into your hands, I commit all its fails and success into your hands. Please make it all prosper and succeed, and I will focus on glorifying your name.

9/9/2025
Bible reading: Proverbs 9 - 15


Bible reflection: consistently in all of proverbs, the focus is on doing things the Godly way, vs doing things the unGodly way, and the ungodly way always leads to death.

Proverbs 12:18 There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts,
    but the tongue of the wise brings healing.


Proverbs 12:25 Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down,
    but a good word makes him glad.


What good does anxiousness do me, but a good word helps elevate my mind. 


Wise don’t win arguments, they heal pain. Hinting that wisdom is something greatly lacking in this generation. Write and do content with wisdom.


Wifening is very happy today, and that makes my day very positive. She is more at ease when she go to work, very happy and upbeat. She’s also becoming more and more attached to me, God, can see you healing the traumas that she experienced in the past, changing her bit by bit.

I feel less worried about work today, probably it’s because more task are being sorted, and God, you have kept my people around me. Or is it because I am earnestly seeking and reading your word on a daily basis, thus I am finding favor among men and You? Regardless, life is good and I give you all the glory for it.

in 1 month, mom and dad will be traveling to Turkey, please bless their trip. Also, while he may not be thinking it, or even asking you for it, please give my brother a faithful, kind, understanding, loving wife.

10/9/2025

Bible reading: Proverbs 16 - 30


When doing content writing, and people keep on opposing, remember this:

Proverbs 18:2
A fool takes no pleasure in understanding,
    but only in expressing his opinion.


Proverbs 24: 17-18
Do not rejoice when your enemy falls,
    and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles,

lest the Lord see it and be displeased,
    and turn away his anger from him.

When I read this, I think of the things I talk to Chua, to Adlene about. The people that have disappointed me, and have gain my reproof. But now I see that if I go at them, the lord will reproof me. No point dwelling on it unless I need to talk to someone to prevent them from stumbling (ie: they are about to work with them. That’s all)


Father in heaven, the people who disappoint me are a lot. Almost everyone has something that I am not happy with. Please help me to forgive them. Help me to accept them, and please provide where they fail. Where they fail, please provide to cover up for their mistakes, for a lot of it are still crucial things that I am dependent on. Things that needs doing, but no one is there to do it once they are gone. Oh God, please send relief to me. Amen.


Today’s one of those very dry days, As I worship, and I read the Bible, my brain feels very blank, and I feel like watching porn and mastubating. Probably cos I am alone in the house with a lot of privacy. In the name of Jesus, foggy brain, mastubation and porn, be gone from me. Amen.

11/9/2025
Ecclesiastes 1 - 12

Ecclesiastes 2: 26
For to the one who pleases him God has given wisdom and knowledge and joy, but to the sinner he has given the business of gathering and collecting, only to give to one who pleases God. This also is vanity and a striving after wind.

This verse is very hard to believe because I feel like I haven’t experienced it before. Or am I still not righteous in the eyes of God. But it also acts as encouragement that I should pick up my bible and start reading and following again like in the same manner. This I want to remember, that it is the goodness of God that will sustain me, and give me fruits.

Ecclesiastes 5: 19-20
Everyone also to whom God has given wealth and possessions and power to enjoy them, and to accept his lot and rejoice in his toil—this is the gift of God. For he will not much remember the days of his life because God keeps him occupied with joy in his heart.


Here, another strangely interesting verse, asking us to enjoy the wealth that God gave us, instead of earning it to only give it away. Like we need a balance between using it for our own enjoyment and pleasure, and using it for the furtherance of God’s kingdom.


Ecclesiastes 6: 10
Say not, “Why were the former days better than these?”
    For it is not from wisdom that you ask this.

Another very interesting verse, that I understand not (at least why is this the case.) Probably it is hinting to men’s forgetfulness of God’s goodness, and it is also hinting at living in the past. It could also mean that if that is the thoughts in my head, that means I am not considering the current riches that God has already granted me.

Ecclesiastes 11:5
As you do not know the way the spirit comes to the bones in the womb[a] of a woman with child, so you do not know the work of God who makes everything.


This verse opens up my mind, reminding me not to forcefully try and understand everything on how God works, or to demand that he explains everything on how he does it. That is my pride at work.

Today again, struggling with overcoming porn and mastubation. So hard. This challenge is like permanent with me. Today, my maxis bills also didn’t pass through my credit card. Financially, I am in real distress. Help me oh God, to overcome this. I want to be able to feed my wife, provide for my family.

Honestly, not really looking forward to today’s reading as it is more on the negative side. Everything is meaningless, no purpose, basically the theme of the book. It’s like… listening to Valerie’s dad talk. I do remember there’s somewhere mentioned that this was written after Solomon backslides from God, and his rule starts becoming foolish. Perhaps that is what it is, that pursuing other things apart from God will make life feels meaningless.

12/9/2025
Bible reading: Songs of songs 1 - 8

There is this one segment of the book under chapter 3 where it walks about the bride bringing the husband into her mother’s room. I am haunted by the memory of Valerie. It’s so hard to forgive her. All the knowledge of her being so intimate with other men, while barely any intimacy towards me. Always on her phone, if there is anything that is making me struggle so hard, is the inconsistency of her saying “she loves me” but I don’t see it in action. Always she needs her own time, she’s doing her own thing, like she’s still living in her own world.

Another thing that really gets into me is how easily she gives up. The point of “don’t want to stay in this world” is something I can resonate with, but feel that it’s very unhealthy. Feels like she can at moments notice, decide to kill herself, or that she doesn’t find purpose in anything. Very challenging.


Probably the funniest way to start reading this book is to start with being angry with Valerie. Her impatience is frustrating to say the least. And it comes suddenly with very short fuse. No clue what caused this level of impatience, or how for it to be reduced. They say if there’s something you are not happy with your spouse, then it’s usually something within us that needs working on, something that needs correcting. At this point, there’s a lot of things I am afraid to pray about.

The book serves as a good calming agent in helping reduce my anger, and make me feel more calmed. Also, another thing that makes it feel like my patience has increased is though I am so tired, my temper is in control, I don’t feel that kind of intense surge in anger.

13/9/2025

Bible reading: Isaiah 1- 7

My thought process as I start this book, now starts the “emo lamenting” which will last all the way to Malachi. It is in this book I see God’s providence, how long suffering and enduring he is, how loving and how bad he wants man to return to him.

Isaiah 1 - 2
This chapters deals with men’s pridefulness, and how God doesn’t like it. That ear to not listen, that ear to not seek council. That ear to want to boast.

14/9/2025

Bible reading: Isaiah 8-


Pleasing to my soul to hear wife so fired up for God now. But I am left worrying about my career again. I think everything that I hope to change, improve etc, cannot be done instantly, results don’t happen in 1 second. I need to learn to be more consistent instead of more excellent. 


Concerning false prophets and mediums, black magic practitioners, tarot cards readers. This is what Isaiah says


Isaiah: 8: 19-20

And when they say to you, “Seek those who are mediums and wizards, who whisper and mutter,” should not a people seek their God? Should they seek the dead on behalf of the living? To the law and to the testimony! If they do not speak according to this word, it isbecause there[o] is no light in them.


Instead of seeking them for info, seek God, for these people does not come from God, there’s no Holy Spirit in them, and it is more important for us to follow closely exactly to what God says ( intention of actions is important, more than knowledge and clarity)


Reading of Isaiah 10 gives me the feeling of safety, that should one come against God’s people, the judgment on them is so severe. The way how God comes at them is so great, he will destroy them, wipe them out so heavily until there’s virtually nothing left of them, then he will continue to destroy their memory long after their gone, by making people look at them with woe and detest, from the depths of how heavily their destruction came about. Also, what makes it equally comforting is the amount of understanding on how God hears and knows each complains against his opponents, from it, God comes with judgment.


As I read the way how each nation that God destroys thinks, the arrogance in their talks, I am reminded of how non-christians think in my current world, how powerful they have become, but I also want to remember that God who is my strength will really take care and protect me, giving me the desires of my heart. Remember me and my devotion to you oh God, how my heart always puts you first in everything I do. Please prosper whatever I lay my hands to, whatever I work on. Please give fruits and success to my efforts. Reward me richly for I try my best to honor you.

Monday, September 9, 2013

Monday, September 2, 2013

Unity

The importance can only be illustrated by this simple example

As you all know, the state of affairs in Malaysia is such that there is a bias switch of support from the current government to the opposition party because of the way the government ran their policies and make them. With so many unfulfilled promises and unpopular decisions after losing nearly all the trust of the people, it is not surprising that they are turning into the underdogs of the elections, so when they won the support of the people of Kluang, it was no surprise.
However, the support that was given to the opposition team in Kluang was not all that strong either, and I soon found out why.
I recieved news from a lot of people even my parents who are people who don't simply channel information around just for the sake of having people follow their opinion., that the opposition team in Kluang is doing a very bad job. I was to find out soon enough too.
The people of Dap Kluang does not really associate much with the people of Kluang. So much for fighting for the rights of the people er? The people of Kluang barely knows who is in the Dap party of Kluang, where the old dap office was. You won't hear of dap politicians making time to hang out or have dinner with the people, well, not yet at least. I can understand the proposition of Dap not having a lot of money thus not being able to host a lot of what MCA had the luxury of hosting, but there is still much one could do while being a leader in getting to know the people whom you serve. I have to admit, while being a fan of DAP, this fact has been undoubtedly true of DAP. That beneath the kind mask are also ugly vulgar symbols of political greed, or even worse. Carnal greed.
Admittedly, People on MCA have better reputation for helping the people of Kluang as well.
However, I felt that the people of Kluang were very ready to pardon all these mistakes. The problem is the disunity of DAP branch in Kluang is terrible. One of the worse in my opinion, granting a very bad impression to the people, giving them the idea that the politicians in DAP Kluang have a way of doing things that is exactly the same as MCA, which really is not the case.
A case of action speaks louder than words. But this is a really good example of  disunity taking the toll of the would be saviors of the town.