The thinking of a person

Recently, I found out; what you where thinking before going to bed would be the first thing you wake up to think about when you wake up. Meditation. What most people finds strange to speak about, and shunt entirely actually is a process of thoughts that cannot be avoided. How interesting I thought, when I first found out about it.
So what formulates someones thinking? Belief system? Education? Experience? All of it? I used to quantify thinking of a person to a very small box. A person from a certain country would think this way, a person with a certain education would think another way, boy was I about to find out a whole new thought system that is used.
How does one juggle emotions together with logic then? Is it even possible to be able to process a thinking patent that has both an emotional and logical aspect to it without being bias? Though the bible, we learned that we can confine each thought and do what I call boxing out the unneeded thoughts. But from my perspective, a good blend of the emotional and the logical can only come with the united front of men and women. Due to the visionary thinking that men possesses, it makes men thinks of emotional thoughts and logical thoughts separately. Allow me to even say that the reason for this is the position of command ie: following that a men's position would demand. Thus also demanding that there be followers of him. Women has a different thinking. more grid/ radar. Thus being able to see what is the path to a vision.  I have known people to be offended by this, but I will still say it, with the visionary mind of men, women are meant to follow them, not wait for a "perfect" man to follow. Of course, whether the man is visionary is another story, but that of course should be left to God to decide.
Today I had a very pleasant conversation of a women, and she brought up a very good point about how the media will sell out an image of a totally distorted position that women should be holding. Women are now being told to do what men are supposed to be doing, from the position of men. Is it right? NO by all means. Its like asking an ant to do what a termite does. What makes it worse is the men who comes to defend the position of women are regarded as weak or un-understanding of the circumstances. How does women survive in a world trying to fufill men's purposes with the rights of men instead of women's purposes and rights of women? You have 1, no equality, 2 no survival, 3 decay, and finally death.